Forgiveness is one thing; Reconciliation is another

Ok, this post is lengthy, but helpful. Origin here.

It is common for those who have been seriously hurt to feel hesitant about reconciling with their offenders. When your offender is genuinely repentant, however, it is important to open yourself to the possibility of restoration. Remember, Jesus spoke about reconciliation with a sense of urgency (see Matthew 5:23-24). If you are hesitant to reconcile, work through the ten guidelines on the next pages.

1. Be honest about your motives -Make sure that your desire is to do what pleases God and not to get revenge. Settle the matter of forgiveness (as Joseph did) in the context of your relationship with God. Guidelines for reconciliation should not be retaliatory.
2. Be humble in your attitude -Do not let pride ruin everything. Renounce all vengeful attitudes toward your offender. We are not, for example, to demand that a person earn our forgiveness. The issue is not earning forgiveness, but working toward true reconciliation. This demands humility. Those who focus on retaliation and revenge have allowed self-serving pride to control them.
3. Be prayerful about the situation -Jesus taught his disciples to pray for those who mistreat them (Luke 6:28). It is amazing how our attitude toward another person can change when we pray for him. Pray also for strength to follow through with reconciliation (see: Hebrews 4:16).
4. Be willing to admit ways you might have contributed to the problem –“Even if you did not start the dispute, your lack of understanding, careless words, impatience, or failure to respond in a loving manner may have aggravated the situation. When this happens, it is easy to behave as though the other person’s sins more than cancel yours, which leaves you with a self- righteous attitude that can retard forgiveness (i.e. relational forgiveness). The best way to overcome this tendency is to prayerfully examine your role in the conflict and then write down everything you have done or failed to do that may have been a factor.” (Ken Sande, p. 168). Such a step, however, is not suggested to promote the idea of equal blame for all situations. (See: Matthew 7:1-6) (Italicized words added).
5. Be honest with the offender -If you need time to absorb the reality of what was said or done, express this honestly to the one who hurt you. Yet we must not use time as a means of manipulation and punishment.
6. Be objective about your hesitancy –Perhaps you have good reasons for being hesitant to reconcile, but they must be objectively stated. Sometimes, for example, repeated confessions and offenses of the same nature make it understandably hard for trust to be rebuilt. This is an objective concern. Clearly define your reasons for doubting your offender’s sincerity.
7. Be clear about the guidelines for restoration -Establish clear guidelines for restoration. Requirements like restitution can be clearly understood. Others include financial accountability, holding down a job, and putting away substances.
8. Be realistic about the process -Change often requires time and hard work. Periodic failure by an offender does not always indicate an unrepentant heart. Behavior patterns often run in deep channels. They can place a powerful grip on a person’s life. A key indicator for change is the attitude of the offender. While you may proceed with some caution, be careful about demanding guarantees from a person who has truly expressed repentance. If the person stumbles, the process of loving confrontation, confession, and forgiveness may need to be repeated . Setbacks and disappointments are often part of the process of change. Don’t give up too easily on process of reconciliation. Keep the goal of a fully restored relationship open.
9. Be mindful of God’s control –“No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, that you may be able to endure it” (1 Corinthians 10:13). “We know that God works all things together for good for those who love him and are called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28). “When you are having a hard time forgiving someone (i.e. being restored), take time to note how God may be using that offense for good. Is this an unusual opportunity to glorify God? How can you serve others and help them grow in their faith? What sins and weaknesses of yours are being exposed? What character qualities are you being challenged to exercise? When you perceive that the person who has wronged you is being used as an instrument in God’s hand to help you mature, serve others, and glorify him, it may be easier for you to move ahead with forgiveness (i.e. restoration)” (Ken Sande, p.165;cf. Hebrews 12:7;I Pet.2:23b; 4:19). (Italicized words added).
10. Be alert to Satan’s schemes -In Ephesians 4:27, the apostle warns about the possibility of giving Satan an opportunity in our lives. Significantly, this warning is given in the context of unchecked anger. A few verses later, the Apostle wrote, ” Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you, and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God” (Ephesians 4:29-5:2). Meditate on these words and put them into practice! (See also: II Corinthians 2:14; Hebrews 12:15).

What is forgiving and forgetting in a relationship?

What is forgiving and forgetting in a relationship?

1. Forgiving is allowing another person to be human for faults, mistakes or misdeeds. Forgetting is putting these behind you; they are no longer brought up and no longer remain a barrier to your relationship.

2. Forgiving is letting another know that there is no grudge, hard feelings or animosity for any wrongdoing. Forgetting is the lack of further discussion, with no ongoing negative references to the event.

3. Forgiving is letting the other person know that you accept as genuine the remorse and sorrow for actions or words that hurt or disappointed you. Forgetting is promising that this deed, whether of omission or commission, will not be brought up again.

4. Forgiving is accepting the sincerity of penance, sorrow and regret expressed over a grievous personal offense; making it sufficient to clear the air. Forgetting is your commitment to let go of anger, hurt and pain over this offense.

5. Forgiving is giving a sign that a person's explanation or acceptance of blame for a destructive, hurtful or painful act is fully accepted. Forgetting is the development of a plan of action between the two of you to heal the scars resulting from the behavior.

6. Forgiving is the highest form of human behavior that can be shown to another person. It means being vulnerable to being hurt or offended in the future, yet setting aside this in order to reopen and heal the channels of communication. Forgetting is is also a noble human behavior; it is letting go of the need to seek revenge for past offenses.

7. Forgiving is the act of love between you and a person who has hurt you; the bandage that holds the wound together long enough to heal. Forgetting is also an act of love; in rehabilitation therapy, helping the wounded return to a full and functional life.

8. Forgiving is the God-like gift of spiritually connecting with others, touching their hearts to calm the fear of rejection, quiet the sense of failure and lighten the burden of guilt. Forgetting is the God-like gift of spiritually touching others' hearts with the reassurance of a happy and full life with no fear of recrimination.

9. Forgiving is the act of letting go of temporary ill will, disappointment or the disgust that arises from the break in your relationship. Forgetting is bridging this gap in the relationship, eventually strengthening it against such a break in the future.

10. Forgiving is an act of compassion, humanity and gentleness by which you let another know that he is indeed a child of the universe upon whom a variety of graces and blessings have been showered and that current or past offenses need not be a barrier to goodness. Forgetting is the act of encouragement, support and reinforcement by which you assist the other person to rebuild, reconnect and re-establish a loving, caring, healthy relationship with you and the world.

What keeps a relationship strong

What keeps a relationship strong is:
1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Intimacy
4. A sense of humor
5. Sharing tasks
6. Some getaway time without business or children
7. Daily exchanges (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
8. Sharing common goals and interests
9. Giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure
10. Giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment

Chances

I am not sure.

Like what you said - if trust is not there, it is very hard to continue.

But I would like to be proved beyond a reasonable doubt as to whether I am wrong or right.

Taking chances is what I like to do. I took a chance one year ago. And now? I don't know.

But still, I miss you.

Beware of Garbage Trucks

Beware of Garbage Trucks By David J. Pollay

How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood? Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive colleague ruin your day? Unless you're a robot, you are bound to blow your top off. However, the mark of a successful person is how quickly he or she can get back his or her focus on what's important.

Sixteen years ago, I learned this lesson. I learn it in the back of a New York City taxi cab. Here's what happen.

I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Grand Central Station. We were driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car's back end by just inches!

The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident, whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us.

My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean he was really friendly. So, I said, 'Why did you do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!'

And this is when my taxi driver told me what I now called, 'The Law of the Garbage Truck'.

Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it. If they happen to dump it on you, don't take it personally.

You just smile, wave, wish them well, and moved on. You'll be happier if you did that rather than fight them.

So this was it: 'The Law of the Garbage Truck'.

I started thinking, how often do I let garbage trucks run right over me? And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people: at work, at home, on the street? It was that day I said, 'I'm not going to do it anymore.' I see garbage trucks everywhere and everyday. I see the load they're carrying. I see them coming to drop it off. And like my taxi driver, I don't make it a personal thing; I just smile, wave, wish them well, and I move on.

Good leaders know they have to be ready for their next meeting. Good parents know they have to welcome their kids home from school with hugs and kisses. Teachers and parents know that they have to be fully present and at their best for the people they care about.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. What about you? What would happen in your life, starting today, if you let more garbage trucks pass you by?

Here's my bet. You'll be happier.

So...love the people who treat you right.
Forget about the ones who don't.
Believe that every thing happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, TAKE IT!
If it changes your life, LET IT!
Nobody said it would be easy...
They just promised it would be WORTH IT

Cheers!
"Life is short. Enjoy the journey."

Proof

Is there any proof that you can show me to settle my heart?

Give me peace of mind, or just kill me with a blow.

Somebody kill me!

It hurts. I hurt. I'm angry, I'm sad. My emotions are totally in a mess.

Somebody kill me!

Thank you!

Thank you!

Perfect 10

Today's 10 Oct 2010, some might say that it's the perfect 10.

Having lived through 01-01-01 all the way till 10-10-10, and I guess at least 12-12-12, I'm sure that people do things on these easy to remember dates.

Today may be a 'nothing special' day or it may be a 'to be remembered forever' day. Which of these applies to you?

Me? It is memorable, in a way. How? I'll let you know when it is the right time.

Hey Gorgeous!

This is one of the times that I wish that I have enough money to spend just like that *snaps finger*.

Yes, it is something that I have my eye on again: The Mont Blanc Patron of Art Limited Edition - Queen Elizabeth I! The pen is inspired by Queen Elizabeth I (and thus the name, of course).

There are two editions available - Limited Edition 4810 & Limited Edition 888, and guess which one I prefer?

Look at how gorgeous it is!



In case you do not know, of course I prefer the red version, which is also the Limited Edition 888, which has a total of 888 pieces in circulation.

According to this website, it costs S$12,110 each.

Of course, I would and I did look for alternatives, and the price that I have been quoted is US$6950 (approx S$10,425) - I get to save S$1685 (or approx S$1000 if I so suay and kana taxed)! Hmmm...

A pretty sum for a pretty pen, how about a pretty pen for a pretty lady?

Oktho-K Contacts?

I dislike contact lens! Not because I have to clean them and all, but just that my eyes get dry whenever I wear them for extended hours.

I know that there has been hard lens available that cause the myopia to not worsen, but instead reduce myopia, and now, I finally know the name -Orthokeratology aka Oktho-k.

Now, this is the use of rigid gas-permeable contact lenses, normally worn only at night, to improve vision through the reshaping of the cornea. So no contacts in the day time - no dry eyes! Unfortunately, it's also quite costly, I read that it costs about $1800 for a pair of such lens, and one would have to undergo quite a few checkups.

Not just that, but the lenses would require replacing every two years, and replacement lenses cost about $800 each time!

I must take a deep breath - no big spending (or so I say). Watch out to when I say I have gotten the lens! Lolz...

Bad debt

My blood pressure is rising, slowly but surely it is.

If you have promised to do something important, especially something which is critical (which reads MONEY, in case you do not know what it is), please make sure that you do it.

I have had friends and ex-friends who borrow money and disappear into thin air.

If you are that kind of person, please, for god's sake, do the both of us a favor and get the hell out of my life!

If you are wondering, yes, I am chasing payment for some bad debt.

And yes, I know where you live. There would be a possibility that you would have an unwanted guest if you do not pay me the money like, now?!?

I hereby repeat

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: TALK IS CHEAP.

Make whatever you say materialise, and I would then believe you.

Otherwise, it would be all what you plan, what you were prepared to do etc. It's all in your mind.

True love is...

I read the following from the noel "I Do (But I Don't)" by Cara Lockwood and would like to share it with you:



Because true love isn't about sheet music or embossed invitations or lace. It isn't about the size of your bridal party or the expensiveness of the food. True love is what you find when you aren't expecting it. True love is taking the risk that it won't be a happily-ever-after. True love is joining hands with the man who loves you for who you are, and saying "I'm not afraid to believe in you."

A love like that has legs. A love like that will survive most anything.

As a world whereby there are no longer lifetime guarantees in anything (at least not much things that people would not claim, for), I do believe that true love is a gamble! = )

What about you?

I'm 75% wise

Just went for my wisdom tooth X-ray (actually I have gone for it once before, but I did not ask for a copy of the X-ray.

I have got to remove 3 of my wisdom tooth, two of them impacted and one that is a case of 'might as well remove since I'm removing the rest'. The total cost? Approx $1300, which is fully covered by Medisave.

I plan on going under general anesthesia, which would render me totally unconscious and so the dentist can dig the teeth out. But now as the hospital did not have any slots in the month of Jun10 (damn), which means that I can't claim the 5 days of MC from my current company, I had arranged for the operation to be done in October, which would allow me to use $1000 of the dental claim from my new company.

But now I'm reconsidering - whether to wait for another 4 months, or should I just go ahead and use the $1k from my Medisave and save on MC? Hmmm...

I actually think that the X ray photo is quite cool, don't you agree?

Royalty Tighens

It is this kind of articles that make me wonder: Are Singapore ministers taking too much from the citizens?

Or should they take a pay cut or align their salaries with the other ministers of other countries to be more fair?

Or maybe they should just take a pay cut to 'redistribute to those lower down in pecking order'?

Ungrateful Bastard

You sure are one ungrateful bastard!

I am proud to say that I did not take advantage of you, but can you say the same for yourself? Maybe I'm just dumb enough to do that, but at least I don't do the guilt trip.

You are a piece of shit!

Unhappiness

What do you do if you are faced with something that you don't like?

Solutions:
1. Ignore it
2. Ignore it
3. Ignore it
4. Walk away

Still want me to continue? Why else would you still want to be around someone or something that makes you unhappy? Or even better, ask things that you know will make you unhappy?

Phone Test-BB 9700

I am currently testing out the Blackberry Bold 9700, courtesy of Ripplevox and StarHub.

With the data cost being absorbed by SH during this trial period (actually they just gave us complimentary Maxmobile online, which allows unlimited data download without busting the bill), I have been facebooking, checking email (both work and personal), Blackberry Messaging like all the time.

This is the very first time that I get my hands on a BB and try all the functions. Granted, I do have friends with BB (curve, bold, storm 2), but would you like try all e different functions on your friend's phone? Usually I would just try how the keys feel, and how smooth the programs switch between each other.

But I digress. The 9700 that I'm holding onto is like fantastic! I am able to do most of the things that I do on my computer except Restaurant City, or neopets.. :p I have yet to try mobile banking, but I shall revert with it's ability to do it or otherwise (I believe that it can)!

PS: I am blogginh this from the 9700! :)

Do you want to be a TV?

Read this interesting piece, and I thought I would share with you:



I guess with everyone being self-absorbed and being so busy with other matters instead of those that really matter, we do neglect the ones that we are supposed to be the closest to.

Is there anyone that you want to be a TV to?

New Toy - Teeter Hang-up Boots!

Nope, it's not my new toy. I cannot buy any new toy for myself for at least the next half year.. =(

Baby has wanted a pair of inversion boots (aka gravity boots) as he wants to relieve the tension that he feels in his back. But due to that fact that he has to take care of his family, his house and his princess, as well as the fact that the boots costs about S$300 here, he has put off buying these boots for quite some time.

So, step in Miss Shopperholic - yours sincerely. While looking to purchase OPI quick-dry for my nail polish, I googled for these items (actually baby asked me to do so - I'm now a personal PA too). Since I have to ship my items back to SGP, so why not purchase these (and some other things) for him? =P

Baby is so pleased with his present, take a look at this:



A gleeful boy with his toy... =)

Btw...

Oh yes, so it's totally my fault now eh? Fuck you!

Poisoned

Just met up with Lucy for dinner the other day, and I've been poisoned by Lucy!

Don't worry, it's not the food that was poisoned, neither was I jabbed with some poisonous stuff. It's more of a lustful kind of poison. No - I'm not lusting over her, but rather, her LV ZIPPY COIN PURSE!

Look! The object of my (Current) Lust:



And the other options available:



I personally prefer the Canvas version, as well as the Vernis Amarante version... However, I had just recently changed my wallet to a apple red Braun Buffel due to the fact that my classy Pierre Cardin has fallen apart due to the many cards and receipts that I slot at the bills compartment.

Decisions decisions decisions... I guess I'd have to head down to the LV flagship store to see if it does call out to me again! Or hopefully someone can get it for me? The price is about S$455, so maybe I'll have to ask my friend who's overseas at the moment if it's cheaper in the States and to get it if it is? =)

Obsession

Ok, I admit. I’m obsessed. Not in the unholy spiritual way, neither is it in the male crazy manner.

I’m obsessed with Spotty! Spotty was given to me on 21Feb10. Since then, he has been to various places, and enjoyed the company of quite a number of people.

And I present to you… (drumroll) SPOTTY~ Wheet!



He's just so cute, don't you agree?

On Being A Quarter Century Old

I’m officially half way of being termed as a spinster. Of course this would not happen if I get hitched or something, but that would be something that I cannot control.

Anyway, I had a quiet 25th birthday celebration. Went to The French Stall located on Serangoon Road with Daniel. Actually, he was with me the time the clock struck 12. Darl, as always, was the first to wish me a Happy Birthday… =)



Just in case you can't deduce what my dearest Daniel Cai got me for my birthday, it was a pair of rings - the pair of earrings as shown above! It's my first Lee Hwa!

This year’s celebration was quiet (as per compared to last year), but I do enjoy this celebration!

Horrendously Busy

In case you're wondering, no, I am not giving up on blogging, just that it has been horrendously busy like nobody's business over at the work place.

Reason? One of the landlords want to take back his unit. It s said that the tenant below (the 四川 restaurant) wanted to take our space. And due to the probability that the landlord has a share in the business, they are chasing us out.

Due to this, I had to do the following:

• Call for agents to search for office space
• look around Chinatown area for vacant spaces that we could move the whole/part of the operations to
• Source for alternative places
• Arrange for viewing
• Arrange for contractors to quote for restoration of the to-be-vacated place
• Source for temporary storage space
• Source for packers (reliable and cheap, more importantly, cheap)
• Staying back to supervise the movers (Together with my boss, and stayed back for 3 nights till 3am, 5am, and 4am, resulting in very bad eye bags and eye rings)
  
• Have quite a fair bit of discussion with the property agent that we have engaged (This was actually recently)

And all these were to be done in the months of Dec/Jan (as we would have to return the place by end Feb10, and Chinese New Year falls right smack in the middle of Feb10!)

Now we have decided a place, signed the Tenancy Agreement, but I must say, the new landlord is comparable to the one that chased us out. Now is just waiting for the renovations to finish, finalize and move in!

To both the landlords who are 'unfriendly': Karma will befall on you, don't worry. It'll all come back to you.

I'm dreading the moving back in part again! Am keeping my fingers and toes crossed that I won't have to stay back late like the last time round!

The Perfect Bling

Sometimes I just want to kick my own ass for not making up my mind fast.

Guess what I let slip through my fingers this time round?

A 0.66 flawless totally colorless diamond at only S$9,675! Which means that the per carat cost is only S$14,659!

It would have been a great investment piece, and I swear that if I had bought the diamond right away when I saw it, I would not be kicking myself now! *ARGH*

Why did I say it would be a great investment piece? Just simply cos the price per carat is like HALF of the rest of the same kind of diamonds on the site? And a colorless and flawless (not just Interior Flawless) diamond that is that cheap, it would have been so rare!

Take a look at my perfect bling that caused me so much heartache:



Prices of other diamonds with the same color and being internally flawless as well:



Can you believe it? When it comes to splurging items like a few hundred to thousand, I would be able to splurge... But when it came to this, I DARE NOT. Chicken eh?

I swear, if I had gotten this diamond, I would not buy any other diamonds as this is THE ONE for me.

My First Chanel

Hohoho! It's time of the year again! The time of giving and receiving!

Guess what I got for my Christmas present this year?

Chanel No.5 Eau Première! It has a lighter smell as compared to the No 5 eau de parfum.



It's my first Chanel! And of course, not the last as I plan to get Coco Mademoiselle as well... ;)

And oh boy, check out the advertisements done for both Chanel No 5 and Coco Mademoiselle! I absolutely adore the spokeswomen for No 5 - Nicole Kidman (Previous) & Audrey Tautou (Current)!

Chanel No 5 - Featuring Nicole Kidman


Chanel No 5 - Featuring Audrey Tautou


Coco Mademoiselle - Featuring Keira Knightley

Catmasutra

Got to know of this artist (Paul Koh <- Brother of the Blogger Mr. Wang Says so) with cats as his choice of work.

He is currently having an exhibition from the 17th - 27th DEC 2009 @ UTTERLY ART (229A South Bridge Road 2nd Level). Opening hours: 12 noon to 8pm, Mon to Sat. 12 noon to 5.30pm, Sun.

I do feel like going to take a look at his exhibition after looking at some of his items, available as coasters, magnets as well as tote bags! And furthermore, they are one of a kind, so you can be sure that you would not find a similar item at someone else's home!

Here are some of his works:

The Art of Marriage

Was reading through forums when this came up. Found this meaningful, so my dears, keep this locked in, yeah?

A good Marriage must be created.
In the art of Marriage the little things are the big things …
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say, “I love You”, at least once each day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives;
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is in giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is finding room for the things of the spirit.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is not only marrying the right partner.
It is being the right partner.

The Paradox of Our Time

The Paradox of our time in history is that:

we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers;
wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.

We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less.

We have bigger houses and smaller families;
more conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge,
but less judgment; more experts, but more problems;
more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly,
laugh too little, drive too fast, get angry too quickly, stay up too late,
get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.

We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life;
we’ve added years to life, not life to years.

We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor.

We’ve conquered outer space, but not inner space.

We’ve done larger things, but not better things.

We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.

We’ve split the atom, but not our prejudice.

We write more, but learn less.

We plan more, but accomplish less.

We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait.

We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies than ever, but have less communication.

We’ve become long on quantity, but short on quality.

These are times of fast foods and slow digestion;
tall men, and short character;
steep profits, and shallow relationships.

These are times of world peace, but domestic warfare;
more leisure, but less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition.

These are days of two incomes, but more divorces;
of fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers,
throwaway morality, one-night stands, overweight bodies,
and pills that do everything from cheer to quiet, to kill.

It is a time when there is much in the showroom and little in
our heart’s room; a time when technology can bring this letter to you, and
a time when you can choose either to share this insight,
or to just delete it.

-Dr. Bob Moorehead

A Newer High Score?

What happens when you brag too fast?



Yes, I broke my 'high score' over and over again, and I shall brag again that my newest best score is 8117! Da-Di-Da... Lolz...

Five Fingers - On the foot?!?

Don't these shoes look cool?



Apparently they make one have the feeling of being barefoot all the time!

Maybe I should consider getting a pair? ;) Shall go check out the prices this weekend.

It's going for USD$75 from the official website.

To see what people are saying about them, check these few websites out:
http://www.vibramfivefingers.com/
http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2009/05/07/vibram-five-fingers-shoes/
http://michaelhyatt.com/2009/09/my-take-on-the-vibram-fivefingers-running-shoes.html
http://redrocksbluesky.com/2009/03/16/450-miles-on-vibram-five-finger-ksos/

Gambling?

I wonder: Would I be able to make a living as a gambler?

I would not say that I'm extremely lucky at any games or otherwise, but I would say that I've gotten the hang of a particular game.

I guess, if I do decide to quit my job, I would go into gambling full time? Lolz!

Right now, I just wish to get away, from work, from the house, from reality. I want to just spend my time lazing around, and find myself.

I NEED TO.

High Score

I'm so proud of myself! Look at this (high score)!



6166, ok? Don't play play... I've always only gotten 5k plus score first time getting a 6000+ score on Solitaire on mobile phone, of course must hao lian! =p

Let's Fly, Let's Fly!

Jetstar's having their 5th Birthday celebration and they're having a 'Bring a Friend' promo.

I've just booked 3 trips (Macau, Darwin & Phuket) based on this promo alone! Remember to book your trip before 15Oct09 to grab the special offer!

I had wanted to go to Australia for 2 weeks, in which I could fly domestic to New Zealand. Unfortunately, Val is not able to travel for such a long time as she will be going for another trip to Australia in July. =( Oh well, there's always the next time round!

2010, come quick! =D

Arcade

Sometimes just spending a day in a place that brings back fond memories is a good thing.

I just spent 2 hours over e weekend in an arcade, playing games like House of the Dead, as well as some Japanese games whereby it tests one's motor skills.

As per always, I would scream and hop about whenever I play games, and this time round, it is no exception. Well, let's just say that I had so much fun that I wish that the 20¢ per token arcade still exists in Bedok, such that I could just splurge in an afternoon of happiness. Or the one at Marine Parade/East Coast area that my dad used to bring us to.

It was actually chance that caused me to have so much fun, but I'm glad that I was there with someone who knew how to have fun.

Oh boy, and the fact that we got tickets that we could exchange for something is so thrilling! Lolz...

What To Know About Men

What Our Daughters Should Know About Men
(Or rather, what Women should know about Men):

1. If you’re paranoid he’s cheating, then you don’t trust him and the relationship should be over.
2. Going down isn’t shameful.
3. Learn how to satisfy yourself sexually.
4. Men are powerless in the face of female sexuality.
5. Be honest and upfront about your feelings, and demand the same from men.
6. Don’t try to change a man.
7. If he’s annoying when you’re dating, then he’ll be annoying when you’re married.
8. The first time he hits you is the last time he hits you, because you leave.
9. “Perfect couples” have troubles too, so don’t compare your relationship to othe relationships too much.
10. If he’s not willing to work on the relationship, then he’s not invested in it.
11. Flirting with other women in your presence is disrespectful and shouldn’t be tolerated.
12. It’s OK to sleep with multiple men at the same time, as long as you’re honest with them and safe about it.
13. The STD talk really isn’t that difficult to have.
14. Keeping your man sexually satisfied will do wonders for your relationship.
15. You both should be able to say “I’m sorry.”
16. If he can’t laugh at himself, he’s too uptight.
17. A man who cooks you breakfast in bed, gives you foot rubs, goes shopping with you or accompanies you to a rom-com is worth his weight in gold.
18. Mama’s boys are unlikely to prioritize your wants and needs above their mom’s wants and needs.
19. Always trust your gut.
20. Expressing strong emotions doesn’t make you crazy.
21. Don’t bother overanalyzing him. His reasoning is likely very simple.
22. Be able to take it as much as you dish it.
23. Find a man that truly “cares” for you. When love and passion fade, “caring” takes over until they return again.
24. Never waste your time with a man that makes you feel bad about yourself.
25. You don’t owe him a thing, even if he buys you the most expensive dinner in town.
26. Tease him. And just went he thinks he’s going to get it, tease him again.
27. There are seven excuses for getting out of anal sex.
28. You can’t own anyone and they can’t own you.
29. It’s OK to just listen to him breathe sometimes.
30. Men need to be cuddled and hugged, too.
31. Find someone to share your life with, not fill in the gaping hole (not a vagina reference) in your life.
32. Only you can make yourself happy.
33. Love doesn’t hurt.
34. Shoe shopping is great breakup therapy.
35. Never settle.
36. Date potential, instead of vainly searching for Mr. Perfect.
37. Be a lesbian.

Sometimes, sometimes

Sometimes I just want to kill some people.

Sometimes I just want to strangle some people.

Sometimes I feel that if I'm not where I am, I would be a happier person.

Sometimes I just feel that it would be better if certain things or people are not around.

Sometimes I like being where I am, because I can make people's lives hell, or have my life made hell.

But most of the times, it's time to breathe in, and out, and keep the person on a 'Die, You Bloody Bugger' list! =D

15 Things we would miss about Men

15 Things we would miss about Men:

1. Their 5 o’clock shadow.
2. Intercourse and outercourse.
3. How cute and vulnerable they look first thing in the morning.
4. The way they reassure us we’re nothing like our mothers.
5. Their ability to reach the high shelves at the grocery store.
6. Taking it like a man when we have a PMS outburst.
7. Their cute little nicknames for us.
8. Reassuring us we’re nothing like the bitches their friends date.
9. How well they lie about the size of our ass in our skinny jeans.
10. How they always know where all the wires go.
11. The way they look in a suit.
12. How good they are at killing the bugs.
13. And installing the AC window unit.
14. The sound of their voice in the dark wishing us “good night.”
15. The way they look holding a baby.

Tree of Life

I feel in love with the above pendant the moment I saw here.

Of course, the description for the above tree does not distract me from the beauty of the piece of work:

Wearing the Tree of Life close to our heart is a wonderful reminder for us to remain grounded in Life. Just like how a strong tree remains firmly rooted to the ground... no matter how strong the wind blows, it will never be uprooted . This is how we should live Life, to remain strongly rooted to our beliefs, to never lose sight of our values and to never give up... no matter what winds of change that blows our way.

The Tree is symbolic of Inner Strength, Growth and Abundance, hence I included Peridot stones which clears the
way for your heart to feel. It also assists in creating abundance in all areas of life, and is excellent for understanding relationships (with yourself and your surroundings) with honesty and integrity

It is also available in a combination of Citrine and Peridot stones. Citrine increases self-esteem and is a powerful alignment tool that works with the Higher Self to heal old patterns and attract abundance

It is through the creation of the Tree of Life that I pray, it will open up the gateway for you to connect with your own source of Strength and Inner Guidance. We all need Inspiration! So may this Tree of Life serve as an Inspiration to you. It makes an excellent and meaningful gift to your Self or Loved ones... a special keepsake to mark a milestone in Life , perhaps. May you cherish it as much as I do to mine :)

However, the above pictured pendant is the creator's personal one... I've requested her to make one that is very much similar to hers, let's keep our fingers crossed! ;)

When Mr Right Comes at the Wrong Time

This article is found in Life section on 31/1/05.
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When Mr Right comes at the wrong time


SOMETIMES, timing rather than love decides who we end up being with - or without.

Only some lucky people marry the loves of their lives. The rest marry the most suitable person who comes along when they are ready to settle down.

A friend in his 20s came to this conclusion after confiding in me that he had recently met a woman who is more attractive than his wife, and so occupies his thoughts more often than his wife does.

'If only I had met her before I got married,' he said wistfully.

But I think even if the love of one's life appears when one is single, one may not be in the right frame of mind to recognise him or her as such.

And then love passes by.

Life is littered with near misses and lost opportunities.

I attended my ex-boyfriend's wedding last month, which triggered many memories.

We met five years ago when I was 23 and he 31. It was love at first sight.

He had an established career, was down-to-earth and steadfastly religious.

I was then working as an air stewardess and my head was - literally and metaphorically - in the clouds.

I was also - well, let's put it this way - not religious.

Despite our differences, we were soulmates. We had the same quirky sense of humour and shared long, intense overnight conversations.

But human nature is perverse. When someone is excessively nice to us, we start taking things for granted, instead of appreciating them even more.

My ex sent me to the airport, fixed my PC, reminded me to take health supplements - and go to church.

He had everything I could want in a husband - except that I was not looking for one. A boyfriend was all I could cope with then.

I loved fast cars, danced wildly at Zouk and took off on shopping holidays at a whim. My life revolved around I, me and myself.

In the six months that we were together, he popped the question several times and talked ad nauseam about having children. He wanted us to enrol for a Christian marriage preparation course.

Yes, I did often fantasise about a Vera Wang wedding gown, but I was at that stage of my life when I was more interested in Guess than Baby Guess.

And where - dare I admit it? - I still wanted to meet other men.

So I was a 23-year-old with the emotional maturity of a 13-year-old. Responsibility? Wasn't that for adults?

In short, I met Mr Right at the wrong time.

The more he talked about marriage and religion, the more I felt pressured and the more pressured I felt, the more irritable I became.

I was too impatient to compromise. Every trivial matter blew up as a big deal. My mood obliterated the good in our relationship and reached a point where I just wanted out.

He was heartbroken; I was sad but relieved. He still called me regularly, beseeching me to change my mind.

The calls stopped finally after a year. Now and then, we say 'Hi' via e-mail.

I had a few painful relationships after that. Served me right, as those rude wake-up calls were necessary for me to realise the meaninglessness of my hedonistic high life.

I missed the tenderness of my ex and began having second thoughts.

Perhaps I also felt more urgency to find someone marriageable before my biological clock reached zero hour. It dawned on me that I am not a pixie like Peter Pan who can flit around forever. One day, I'd wake up sick and alone when my fair weather friends flit away.

But I was too proud and too unsure of my ex's reaction to call him until last year.

The first thing he told me excitedly was that he had found The One. My heart tumbled to my feet. So, that's Fate.

If only I could turn back time. If only I had met him later. If only... what feeble words.

These days, I am more circumspect. I have come to terms with my loss. there is nothing I can do about timing, but I can do everything about my choices.

Sometimes, when the nights get lonely, I toy with the idea of marrying a platonic friend of mine, who often assures me earnestly that, if the worst comes to the worst, he'd be willing to marry me.

But I always dismiss that. I have already made one mistake. I should not make another by settling for second best merely for the sake of getting hitched - only to regret it soon after, as the guy who confided in me did.

Hopefully, the best is not over but yet to be.

The Dream...

I spy with my eye, a dreamy resort: Soneva Kiri by Six Senses, located in Thailand.

Just looking at the photos, I can't help but to think of how romantic it would be, how good it would be to stay there, or even better, being proposed to while on a holiday there...

How could one say 'No' after being brought to a secluded beach in a private jet and being totally relaxed in a private and romantic place? I know for sure that I won't (provided that I can see a future with the other party).

Of all the accommodation types that they have, the one that I like most is the Beach Villa Suite, which has a absolutely dreamy bedroom:



Followed by the Cliff Villa Suite, which has got a very interesting bathroom:



For a 3D2N stay, it'll be around USD6000 (aft taxes) for the Beach Villa Suite! *GASP*

For more info about the resort, check out the fact sheet.

And guess what? They have private residences too, priced between US$4.5M - US$7.5M... *DOUBLE GASP*

Maybe that shall be on my list of dream holiday homes? Lolz... =)

Love Gives Love Takes

What makes you fear LOVE? I think the following sums it up for me perfectly...

The Corrs: Love Gives Love Takes



Just when I thought I was safe,
You found me in my hiding place,
I'd promised never again
I wouldn't give my heart, but then
Closer, closer I moved near you
The way I want you makes me fear you

Love breaks and love divides
Love laughs and love can make you cry
I can't believe the ways
That love can give
And love can take away

I find it hard to explain
It's crazy, but it's happening
And I'm falling again
Much further than I've ever been
I'm falling deeper than the ocean
I am lost in this emotion

Love breaks and love divides
Love laughs and love can make you cry
I can't believe the ways
That love can give
And love can take away

Ahh Oh yeah x3

Love can give
And love can take away

Love breaks and love divides
Love laughs and love can make you cry
love can make you cry I can't believe the ways
That love can give
And love can take away
Love breaks and love divides
Love laughs and love can make you cry
I can't believe the ways
That love can give
And love can take away

I, not II

In case you were wondering, no, I did not head down to the COMEX 2009 to get my X Mini II.

I got the previous model X-Mini at Guardian instead, and it was 2 for the price of 1 (X-Mini II)!

So, being the price conscious me, of course I get the cheaper deal (while spending). =P

X-Mini II

I know what I want from Comex 2009! Presenting, the X-Mini II Capsule Speaker!



Beautiful, isn't it? ;) Price wise $45.90, I guess it's worth it? Lolz… Well, I do need a portable speaker (after mine has spoilt), for my movies and all, so why not?

Now hat I've seen someone selling it for $38-42, I'm now wavering on thoughts to purchase it at Comex...

Fees

Blah, this is the time of the month whereby I have to call the different banks to request for a wavier of annual membership fees for my credit cards from the various banks… Otherwise I'd have to pay amounts ranging from $150 to $500 for membership fees? Which IS crazy shit by the way…

Forex

I think that I should foray into Forex, the buying and selling of currencies...

Take a look, I've opened a demo account with Saxo, and I've made approximately USD20k. With this amount, I can buy my diamond ring already! =D

Then again, before the profit that u see now (as per captured on 26Aug09 @ 2345h), you should have seen my portforlio this afternoon! I was down to only having an account balance of USD50k. =$

I could safely say that my emotions were flactuating with the price of the currencies. But one thing I've learnt, not to put too much in it at one go.

I should consider forking out SGD 5k of maybe more to open a real account? Hmmm...

At least with this I won't have to study the different companies and all, as per shares and stocks...

Hunger Strike!

What happens when you're hungry? You'd snack, n snack n snack.. That's what I've been doing on a fairly frequent basis recently...

Sudden cravings would strike n I'll just heed then and eat.. And by cravings, they're things like curry puffs, ice cream, prata etc. I'm sure u get the picture: unhealthy food.

In case you're wondering, no, I'm not pregnant! Just a hungry lady... Lol!

Spring Cleaning!

In 2006, I bought myself a present…

And in 2009, I've filled up most of it… Damn! Time to do some spring cleaning! =)



Oh my, how I dread the task... =(

Ten Thoughts on Whole Living

(1) Loving acts begin at home,
but the effects ripple infinitely outward.

(2) Each transition is an opportunity
to look at who you are -
and where you're headed.

(3) Walk a little, everyday.

(4) Let go of what you don't need;
you'll make space for what you want.

(5) The desire for change shows up in your body
as well as your thoughts. Pay attention to it.

(6) Good food that serves you in the short term
will sustain you in the long run.

(7) A healthy life stems from better choices.

(8) Help others because they need it,
not because you need to provide it.

(9) Giving is the key to a happier, healthier life.

(10) Teach what you know,
and you'll discover what you're ready to learn.
Life is so short, so fragile.

Let's live it in the most meaningful and fulfilling way :)

*Extracted from Body+Soul, Sep07 issue

Wrong Idea

I think that he has the wrong idea…

He called me today again to tell me that he's not in for a relationship as he has just been in Singapore for a short time, and that he just wanna have fun. -_-

Does he think that all Singaporean ladies are out for relationships only with Caucasian men? *slap*

Things We Forget

Ever wondered what would happen if you leave a piece of post-it somewhere in the public with some words to remind you of things?

Got to know of this following blog: To Do:

Some of their works are as follows:



Check it out! I'm linked!

What Husbands Are For

Dior placed the following on her Notes section on Facebook. I like it! =)

What Husbands Are For
Someone To Brag About At Work To The Girls .
Someone To Buy You Shoes , Diamonds Also Pearls

Someone To Punch When Your Stressed .
Someone To Watch You Get Undressed .

Someone To Carrying All Your Shopping .
Someone To Do it With When Your Periods Stopping .

Someone To Bring You Back Up When You've Sunk .
Someone To Look After You When Your Drunk .

Someone To Buy You A Golden Ring .
Someone Who Doesn't Care How Badly You Sing .

Someone To Live With In A Home
Someone To Talk Dirty On The Phone .

Someone To Be There All Your Life .
Just So You Can Say You Make A Great House Wife .

Someone To Laugh With And Say Your Funny .
Someone Rich To Murder And Nick All His Money

I must say...

Well, I must be fair and say that I still prefer kissing people whose kisses are softer and gentler, and don't seem to be eating one right up... =X

Dilbert Animated Cartoons

I subscribe to the podcast 'Dilbert Animated Cartoons'. The clips are pretty funny. Here are three that I quite like. Enjoy!

If you can die 1 hour earlier, what can you do?


What is blatant fraud?


So what if you have all the knowledge and skills?

Dating Personality

Took this quiz that is on Facebook and here are the results.



I actually took it twice, as I felt that some of the questions warranted a different answer from me at different times. And guess what? Here's what it says:



Well, I actually find both of them true... Muahaha...

"When I go out and race,
I'm not trying to beat opponents,
I'm trying to beat what I have done
... to beat myself, basically.
People find that hard to believe
because we've had such a bias
to always strive to win things.

If you win something
and you haven't put everything into it,
you haven't actually achieved anything at all.
When you've had to work hard for something
and you've got the best you can out of yourself on that given day,
that's where you get satisfaction from."

- Ian Thorpe

What Happened to All the Nice Guys?

Read this on my bro's emo-blog. I like it. Doesn't it happen to the girls too? Hmmm...

"What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"
Date: 2007-11-19, 3:52AM PST

I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out.What happened to all the nice guys?
The answer is simple: you did.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were ****ing treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry <-- Chivalry is Dead . He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:1.) Build a time machine.2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab ahold of it.I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

That is.. if you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've ****ed yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bull**** and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't ****ing want you, now.

Sincerely,A Recovering Nice Guy

Love or Lust?

I'm in Love!! Look at this beauty!!



Classic design, (you would have to) auto focus, interchangeable lenses, manual options, what more can you ask for?

Look at some of the photos that have been taken with the beautiful family (of film) of this love. Well, this love is it's in the family to dabble in digital photography.





And guess what? It costs a whopping $7k (brand new) in Singapore!

Dang, anyone wanna buy it for me?

Jay & the Lost Boys

Jay & the Lost Boys features their self created comic strips (I'm only at the beginning, which features 2 guys with 4 fingers), as well as of course, their thoughts on movies etc!

Some interesting excerpts from there are as follows:

10 Top Movies for the Men:

No. 10 - Top Gun
No. 9 - The Firm
No. 8 - Big
No. 7 - Blown Away
No. 6 - Gone in 60 Seconds
No. 5 - 2 Fast 2 Furious
No. 4 - Free Willy
No. 3 - Deep Impact
No. 2 - Double Team

AND the WEINER for RULE 34 issss...
No. 1 - SHAFT

10 Top Movies that sound Homo-Sexually Slanted but are not:

10. Top Gun!
9. Bad Boys
8. The New Guy
7. 12 ANGRYMen
6. GOOD Fellas
5. BangKok Dangerous
4. BRIEF Encounter
3. The BIG Lebowski
2. Bend It Like Beckham

And the Weiner Once Again, resting on its Tall and Mighty Pedestal:
1. SHAFT!!

And of course, not missing out for the Ladies:

10. Snatch
9. The Whole Nine Yards
8. First Blood
7. Orgasmo (what? never heard of it?)
6. 1 Week
5. 28 days later
4. An Inconvenient Truth
3. About A Boy
2. Diamonds are Forever

And taking top spot this week! Women! We know What Women Want!!!
1. The RING (its horror is in every manner intended)

What Have You Learnt?

I’ve learnt that . . .

• Just one person saying to me, ‘You’ve made my day!’ makes my day.
• Being kind is more important than being right.
• No matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
• Sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
• It’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
• I’ve learned… That under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
• To ignore the facts does not change the facts.
• When you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
• Love, not time, heals all wounds.
• The easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
• Everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
• The less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.
• Life is tough, but I’m tougher.
• Opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
• When you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
• I wish I could have told the people that I love her one more time before they passed away.
• I should keep my words both soft and tender, because tomorrow I may have to eat them.
• A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

Pleasurable Reading

I had chanced upon this website after reading the book The Mile Hi! Club.

Well, let's just say that it (the website) made for some pleasurable reading, not the book.

Personally, I do not feel that the book warrants the price of $20+ sold at Kinokuniya.

Those who are under 18, please do not click on the link.

PS: I want to join the Mile High Club!

À la folie... pas du tout

What happens when you love a person?

Or rather, when you love a person too much?



Caught this French movie À la folie... pas du tout (He Love Me, He Loves Me Not), it taught me the dangers of:

• Jumping into conclusion before seeing the other side of the story
• Loving one (too much) wholeheartedly

Go check the movie out. It's worth it.

No Wonder It Fell in Ranking

Am so irritated by Singapore Changi Airport..

They should update on their website which are e affected shops that are closed for the renovation!

I had arranged for my boss to be terminal 2's starbucks for a meeting.. As I had checked Changi Airport's interactive map and there was nothing specified that it was undergoing renovation, I told my boss n the client that location.

Can you imagine my surprise when my boss texted me and told me that Starbucks is closed for reno?

No wonder the fall to third place for the Wonderful Airport in the World...

Gestures

Love does not simply mean sating that I Love You, or buying expensive things for the ones you love.

Just yesterday and today, I felt loved.

As Sugar's out of office today running fieldwork, and her Ben went for a earlier lunch (cos no gf, no bf, kidding, just that his team was in a team meeting in the morning, hence no bf for him), I went for a late lunch as usual.

Popped by the shop that I frequent and complained to my lady that I felt tired. And she bought me coffee! It tasted nice, and I appreciated her gesture!



And of course, thanks Sugar for buying the bubble tea yesterday, I had enough pearls to make a necklace even after I finished the milk tea…

Full, I felt... And satisfied, and loved...

An Evening With Il Divo?

They're here!! I want to watch their concert!!

They're so good that they make me break out in goose bumps just by listening to them...

This is one of their songs at one of their concerts: Hallelujah



And they're here in Singapore on 21Sep09 at the Singapore Indoor Stadium, anybody wanna go with me to watch it? *beams*

She's Back!

I'm so happy. Darling is back from UK…

Darl, let's go out soon, k? I need my haircut and I've got things to update you!! And I want my souvenir! Lolz! =P

Bonus

Bonus was given out with Jun09's salary.

some of my colleagues are not happy with the amount they received.

Me? I'm glad to get a bonus! =D It might not be as good as 2008's amount, but I can't really blame boss. Blame the economy. =(

Prizes, anyone?

At 15, a girl is a SURPRISE.
At 25, she is the RIGHT PRICE.
At 35, a GRAND PRIZE.
At 45, a CONSOLATION PRIZE.
At 55, she is a DOOR PRIZE, and
At 65, a GIVEAWAY PRIZE.

Company Dinner

Company Dinner was held at Red Dot (at Dempsey) just yesterday. And i got drunk.

Evening was not too bad though,i must say, just that it was a little too warm for me and I look like i just went swimming in certain photos taken -_-...



Can't really remember what I said when i was drunk, but what I remember was that I was screaming vulgarities out of the cab while on the expressway... Feel so sorry for the poor uncle...

Today, bad ****ed-up hangover... The result of drinking too much, too fast.

Bottoms up! =)

Langkawi

Alright, for real now, I'm hitting Langkawi in Apr10! Book so well in advance… =D

Can't wait! =D

Good Lookers Get More Dough

Read the following article on the HR Bulletin.



Think it's pretty true, don’t you agree? =)

True or False?

Somebody told me this: Once you have gone through a relationship whereby you've loved deeply and thoroughly, you would never love that deeply again.

True or false?

I think it's true for me.

End of June

We are nearing the end of June. Which means:

• Bonus time is here
• Hectic time is here
• Audit time is here
• Time whereby boss ask where my resignation letter is here
• Resignation time is here (But not mine though, but very soon)

Was online with a friend last night. He mentioned that he might be posted overseas, once the right salary package has been negotiated. When would it be my turn to tell people that?

Love to Touch HD

Being disappointed with SingTel service in retaining their customers (I've been with them for 10+ years), I contracted with StarHub for my mobile line! Not to worry, my mobile number is still the same. And I've got a new phone - HTC Touch HD.

Look… Ain't it pretty? =)



Was initially torn between this and HTC Touch Pro 2, but this beauty won out with it being light despite the lack of a slide out qwerty keyboard. =P

I'm a Hubber! =)

It's official. I'm now a Hubber!

After surviving 3 months without internet access at home, I finally got myself down to the just ended PC Show 2009 and signed up for Mobile Broadband & Mobile Service from StarHub.

But now, I've been sleeping at 12-1 plus in the mornings, due to the fact that I'm spending my time online and online and online… Oh well, pros and cons… -_-'''

Conquering Mt Kinabalu

As mentioned previously, I have been to quite a number of places in the first half of 2009. This was because of the fact that my boss wanted the workers to clear their leave in view of the bad economy.

Just came down from Mount Kinabalu. Place was nice, temperature was great, people I met there, friendly! Climb up and down the mountain? Priceless!



I took 6 hours to climb up to the 'base camp', and another 3 hours up to Low's Peak. But, took 7 hours to head down to the bottom of the mountain. My knees totally gave way, even while walking on flat ground. =(

Although there was white water rafting on the travel itinerary, none of us was able to drag ourselves out of the bed for it. Every step hurt, and I do mean seriously HURT. I only managed to be able to climb up and down the stairs without wincing at the pain 4 days after the climb down.

BUT, I plan on heading up again yearly next year, to do the harder Via Ferrata. And I want to beat my time up the mountain. Call me sadist, but I crave for the challenge. =)

Irritating

Sometimes people just irritate the hell out of me. Examples are as follows:

• Inability to follow instructions
• Delivering unclear deliverables
• Last minute requests
• Using 'boss' pressure
• Inability to leave messages see example below:
  

No number, no time, no indication of who took down the message, how would one know who to clarify with if there are any questions?!?

One word: IRRITATING

Update

I've not been blogging for quite some time, so here's a quick note to reassure that I'm well and alive, just too busy with holidays…

I shall have a lengthy post next week to make it all up, yeah? =)